Poisoned Well
Poisoned Well
(OP)
I worked for a crappy company awhile back that was out of control and a lawsuit waiting to happen. The work environment was pretty out there and when I tell people what it was like I am left with the impression that they think I am making it up or worse that I am litigious in nature and trying to find my payday. When I left, I made my concerns known to HR with the hope that HR and the managers would fix things for those still there. I was extremely angry at the time because another guy left before me and laid it out to HR and nothing happened and they thought it was "just a personality conflict" and didn't look into anything. I like the job that I presently have but I have some worries that my relationship with my boss and/or my coworkers is being affected by whatever is trickling through the grapevine. At times, it is kind of disconcerning.





RE: Poisoned Well
Are you afraid that information is being passed from your old job to your current job?
B.E.
The good engineer does not need to memorize every formula; he just needs to know where he can find them when he needs them. Old professor
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And that during an exit interview you say only something along the lines of "I've enjoyed working here, but I've decided to pursue a new opportunity for personal reasons. Good bye."
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Bull$#!+ persists because it is allowed to perist.
Learning this will help one to resist the temptation to damage oneself while attempting to fix things that are exactly the way someone else wants them.
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Follow Dr. Stangelove's advice- stop worrying about the atomic bomb and get on with bettering your reputation and stay the course.
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You've left.
Move on and look forward, be focussed on the new job and your future. Pretty soon people will forget where you cam from and start to judge based on what you do here and now.
JMW
www.ViscoAnalyser.com
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If you must criticise a previous employer make sure:-
1) There is lots of obvious supporting evidence.
2) It does not appear you are being malicious.
3) You have no apparent ulterior motives.
4) There was a real need for you to disclose.
All of the above very rarely happen with regards to previous employers.
Regards
Pat
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RE: Poisoned Well
TheTick is absolutely right. Most people have a very high tolerance for misery at work because their distaste for change is equally high.
An old consultant said once that most people RIP, Retire In Place, soon after college graduation. Work is not where they derive pleasure, happiness, and satisfaction. Those are gained outside of the workplace for the RIP folks. They know they can get an engineering degree and coast for the next 40 years doing an OK kinda' job and enjoying life.
Pamela K. Quillin, P.E.
Quillin Engineering, LLC
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The most important rule of anything; be it "power" or "influence" or "credibility", is to know when to keep your mouth shut, and your opinions to yourself. In fact, don't even know when to keep your mouth shut, just do it anyway.
Those people you were trying to "protect" at the job...when you left... they don't need your help, they don't care, and they don't have anything to do with you. You poisoned the well to kill those that drink from it.
Now, every time you have to take a drink, you have to think about it... because it's the water that's trickling through that grapevine.
Charlie
www.facsco.com
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I have found myself working with the same people time and again because despite "moving on" they caught me up again or I them.
JMW
www.ViscoAnalyser.com
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http://www.eng-tips.com/viewthread.cfm?qid=303867
Move along, be done. Me and a friend have to redirect or end up reliving the old place.
"How bad was it?"
"You wouldn't believe it. Did you catch the ball game last night?"
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That was the question I asked, and never got an answer from the OP.
B.E.
The good engineer does not need to memorize every formula; he just needs to know where he can find them when he needs them. Old professor