Are all engineers burning out or is it possible NOT to be overworked?!
Are all engineers burning out or is it possible NOT to be overworked?!
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Hey everyone, I'd like some opinions on this from engineers from various organisations please.
I used to work with a very big marine construction company as a graduate trainee and then as a fully fledged engineer for 4 years. I was told I was good at my job, but never felt as confident as I would've liked. My main issue was that I was straight out of uni and wanted to revise my university notes to keep the theory fresh in my mind (my work was very theoretical). However at the end of every working day I was so exhausted I couldn't bare to revise.
In my final year in this job I was doing the work of 3 people and was set unrealistic deadlines. When I mentioned this to supervisors they agreed, but just said: 'do the best you can!' It was the typical overworked-employee scene: lots of overtime, sometimes weekend work, and although my salary did reflect this extra work I felt completely drained and eventually had to take sick leave from all the stress caused.
I have since left engineering and moved into the public sector, which I enjoyed for a short while, but more recently feel very disheartened that my skills with numbers and logic are not being utilised in any way. I miss the satisfaction of solving a complicated engineering problem. There is some small element of nostalgia creeping in here, but I do feel very strongly that I want to work with numbers again, perhaps in another engineering role that is not so draining.
So I bet you can guess what my next question is: is this the norm? Surely there are engineering companies out there that take care of their employees and discourage overworking, don't overload them with projects as soon as they realise they're good at their jobs?
Is it possible to re-enter engineering and find organisations that won't destroy my health as the last one did? I am willing to retrain or go in at a lower salary/lower level position to return to engineering, if the company is right. :)
What do you all think? *fingers crossed* Give me some hope! ;)
I used to work with a very big marine construction company as a graduate trainee and then as a fully fledged engineer for 4 years. I was told I was good at my job, but never felt as confident as I would've liked. My main issue was that I was straight out of uni and wanted to revise my university notes to keep the theory fresh in my mind (my work was very theoretical). However at the end of every working day I was so exhausted I couldn't bare to revise.
In my final year in this job I was doing the work of 3 people and was set unrealistic deadlines. When I mentioned this to supervisors they agreed, but just said: 'do the best you can!' It was the typical overworked-employee scene: lots of overtime, sometimes weekend work, and although my salary did reflect this extra work I felt completely drained and eventually had to take sick leave from all the stress caused.
I have since left engineering and moved into the public sector, which I enjoyed for a short while, but more recently feel very disheartened that my skills with numbers and logic are not being utilised in any way. I miss the satisfaction of solving a complicated engineering problem. There is some small element of nostalgia creeping in here, but I do feel very strongly that I want to work with numbers again, perhaps in another engineering role that is not so draining.
So I bet you can guess what my next question is: is this the norm? Surely there are engineering companies out there that take care of their employees and discourage overworking, don't overload them with projects as soon as they realise they're good at their jobs?
Is it possible to re-enter engineering and find organisations that won't destroy my health as the last one did? I am willing to retrain or go in at a lower salary/lower level position to return to engineering, if the company is right. :)
What do you all think? *fingers crossed* Give me some hope! ;)





RE: Are all engineers burning out or is it possible NOT to be overworked?!
Regardless of what one may claim, no employer can force an employee to do overtime. Although, if you keep giving them more without asking, they will not complain or reward.
Rafiq Bulsara
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It also sounds like you have a lot of talent and are knowledgable. Don't take something that you think is less than you deserve. Think big and take aim. You're not going to get anywhere unless you aggresively pursue what you feel you deserve. Again, I think you're just in a situation a lot of us are in. But there are good empoloyers out there that value their employees. You just have to find that situation, be confident, and stick up for yourself. Alright I'm off my soap box!
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"So I bet you can guess what my next question is: is this the norm?"
Yes in today's economy. With layoffs people are taking on more work.
"Surely there are engineering companies out there that take care of their employees"
You are your own company with in the company. You have to take care of yourself, you're an adult now, so you have to craft your own career path, it is not the responsibility of the company.
"and discourage overworking, "
Discourage overworking? Sorry, but that is how you move to your next position. How do you get "above and beyond job responsibility" on your review if you don't do more than what is expected of you?
"don't overload them with projects as soon as they realise they're good at their jobs?"
Sorry, if you are the subject matter expert, you will get all the work that is applicable to your specialty. Just be glad that you have become an asset to the company.
"Is it possible to re-enter engineering and find organisations that won't destroy my health as the last one did?"
Yes there are, you have to find them.
"I am willing to retrain or go in at a lower salary/lower level position to return to engineering, if the company is right. :)"
You have the experience so use it. In today's economy, you may get the right position, but the lower salary.
Tobalcane
"If you avoid failure, you also avoid success."
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Consider contracting. It has some nice things going for it:
You are hired for a specific job and usually for a specific duration.
If they want you to work overtime, you will be paid for it.
You get to stay out of office politics.
No matter how awful the job turns out to be, it has an end.
Contract houses today often provide benefits, and they are often superior to benefits offered by their customers.
Mike Halloran
Pembroke Pines, FL, USA
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Mike Halloran
Pembroke Pines, FL, USA
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Additionally, I'm not looking for career progression just yet. I don't want to be overworked, simple. I'm willing to stay in the same position for a long time if it simply meant I get to not be overworked.
And the reason I say I am willing to retrain is not because I don't value my skills, its because the work I was doing previously was very very narrow in scope. I simply can't walk into most engineering jobs without some additional training, given my limited experience.
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You're right, you can't change an outfit's collective mentality. If an interviewer _brags_ about how everybody there works 55+ hours for 40 hours pay, it would be rude to just flat call him an idiot. Better to end the interview with a polite excuse about how it's not exactly what you're looking for. Interviews work both ways.
It's okay to tell _us_ that you feel a little less than perfectly qualified for every possible opportunity, and that you want to have a life outside of work. Just don't put that stuff in a cover letter.
Mike Halloran
Pembroke Pines, FL, USA
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Yes, you may find an engineering position that does not have the meat grinder corporate culture, but it is likely to be a smaller organization. I had lots of free time at my last job, right before I got whacked in the face with a dead fish.
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Of course, they still wanted their projects completed on time though for the most part.
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Business generally works on supply and demand and whoever is in the strongest position can negotiate the best deal, it is not just employees that are having a rough time at the minute, companies are having to take on jobs with very tight lead times and low margins in order to stay in business, of course they have the option as do employees to just walk away and do something else.
If you come to the conclusion that ALL engineering companies are unreasonable then it is probably your expectations that are unreasonable and not every company in the world.
What sector you work in also has a major impact, the area I live in has all the major F1 teams except Ferrari and I know a good few people who work for them and whilst it can be a dream job for some especially the petrol heads the burn out rate is very high. Sorry but you won't have an engine for Sundays grand prix because it is five o clock and I am going home now doesn't really cut it.
As with most things in life some things you can change some things you cannot, expel all your energy on things you can change.
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Item Description Hrs/Day
Time to Sleep Actual bed rest 8.0
Time to Work On the job 8.0
Time to Travel Commute to and from work (1 hour each way) 2.0
Time to get ready for work (Bathe, shave, dress, etc. 0.5
Time for morning meal With family if possible 0.5
Time for evening meal With family if possible 1.0
Time for lunch at work Normal one half hour 0.5
Time with family Homework, bath baby, shopping,. 2.0
Time with spouse Maintain that relationship 1.5
Time for that extra work "Overtime" 0.0
Total hours listed per day = 24.0
Total hours in a day = 24.0
See, you don't have time to work Overtime.
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I've been working a LOT of hours for the last 6-9 months (50-60 per week every single week). I feel angry sometimes knowing 1. How much extra rime they're getting out of me at 2. Such a cheap rate to begin with. If I didn't get to work on such cool projects and as much autonomy as I do I would have moved on long ago.
The way to make sure that you're not being taken advantage of is to make sure you get paid for OT.
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I love engineering and there are cool jobs that I would kill for but I would not be surpised if I decided to just piss on all of it in my 40s to start up my own business. Please don't reply with you shouldn't go into engineering for the money. Engineering is not a civil service. It is a profession and should be respected and rewarded as such.
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Work addicts, and people who are insecure in their skills, will find excuses to stay late at whatever job they find for themselves. Most employers will take that extra benefit without noticing, much less compensating this extra time or even saying "thank you".
Take it from a recovered work addict: figure out what's driving you to work those extra hours. Fix that. Nobody else will fix it for you.
If you can't fix it, find a place that at least compensates you for the extra effort, in whatever way they can. Or take that work ethic and put it to work for yourself in your own business.
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That is so true, I interviewed with a company a couple years ago that only gave 2 weeks vacation no matter how many years experience the candidate has. The owner of the company then says you can get comp time for any hours over 50 per week and some guys get a couple extra weeks vacation each year. I did the math and said, no thanks!
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There's a level in a company at which one should have the "do whatever it takes" mentality, and there's a level at which one does one's delineated job and goes home to the kids and/or dog. One would hope that salaries at those different levels would be commensurate with the level of responsibility and commitment. I assume, however, that that is not always the case. Salaries and other such expectations are set by people in charge, people so personally invested in the success of the firm that they live and breathe it, and they don't understand why anyone else would not be the same way.
In a bad enough market, even the people at the bottom have a deep personal investment in "doing whatever it takes".
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No, you need to decide what you CAN give, consistently, without creating a deficit in your mental or physical health, your relationships etc., and give that. Actually no, that's not true either- you need to SELL that, not give it. You are working for a living, not making a donation to a charity.
Regardless what level you're at in an organization, there's a difference between working for a salary and accepting a life of indentured servitude in the name of professionalism. Unfortunately there are many people in our profession who don't understand the distinction.
Unless you're a sole proprietor or in a partnership with only a few partners, if the company rises and falls based solely on your uncompensated overtime, it's in serious trouble. If you're a work addict, you need to give your head a shake and get over yourself: you need to realize that you are at the same time both MORE important to yourself and to your family, and LESS important to your employer, than you currently imagine.
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"Doing whatever it takes" does not include working for free or at the detriment of yourself or your family.
Working uncompensated overtime or even consistent paid overtime does not prove your loyalty, just that you are a workoholic and cannot manage your time or work.
Rafiq Bulsara
http://www.srengineersct.com
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As long as you keep giving, you have indicated to mgmt that your limit has not yet been reached, and they will continue to ask for more. It's your job to determine equilibrium, you will never be able to give as much as they ask for, it is open-ended.
There is a huge misconception within non-management employees, that mgmt can never be satisfied. This is not true. If you are doing your best, and it's good quality work, and not slacking, you have a duty to yourself to draw the line. In most cases, mgmt will not only be satisfied, but will respect your ability to know your own boundaries and having the courage to (tactfully) communicate them.
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1) Start out new, learn the company ropes
2) Add hours and take on new responsibilites. Never say no to any job
3) Get disenchanted, possibly screw something up due to too much on the plate. Feel resentment towards other co-workers who slack.
I early good raises early on in an organization when I take on more, but then it levels out as management comes to expect it. Then if something goes wrong because I stupidly didn't ask for help when I didn't have time, I am the only one responsible
And I do believe part or all of it has to do with low self esteem when it comes to my professional life.
Co-workers notice this type of stuff. If they have been with the company longer than you, they'll find ways to dump their work on to you even if they aren't your boss because they know you won't say no or rarely say no.
I seriously never learn.
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In my military days, one of my responsibilities was to train the ranks below me to step into my shoes and step into each other's shoes if any of us was taken out. Later in my career I learned to recognize poor command leadership in other units when I would hear from another outfit, "Well the only person in our unit who can do that is Sgt XX."
However, corporate America (I have only ever worked in the United States so my strategy may be useless elsewhere) seems to if not encourage such concentration of skills in one person, at least seems to accept it as a part of doing business. There are managers out there who do not let themselves get trapped this way, but there are quite a few who do not watch out for this concentration of skills.
So my strategy has been, wherever I have worked, to keep learning other disciplines, other tasks, other software packages, other CAD programs, and even though I am not management to learn a number of accounting and tracking methodologies. By doing so I am usually able to put myself in a position where I am at least somewhat "untouchable".
Now I want you to know I understand that no one is TRULY indispensable, least of all me. But I have usually been able to position myself so that if not indispensable, it will be a real pain for my manager to not have me around.
And here is the reason this is on topic for the original post: By placing myself in that position I find that I have a much higher level of success at refusing additional work unless I am sure I have the time for it without over-committing my schedule to the organization.
I am extremely grateful for the jobs I have had and for the job I now have. But I have always tried to position myself to be able to have control over my workload whenever I can do so without either losing my family time and without hindering the success of my manager, department and company.
Like the vast majority of my peers who post here I am more than willing to do far more than normal when a surge effort is critical. Every organization legitimately faces such situations. But in organizations where such "emergencies" are the norm rather than the exception, I can often avoid being personally overloaded for more than just a short term effort.
I have been in my industry 36 years...I don't mind having a job but I have family with whom I would much rather spend my time, and due to a lot of poor decisions on my part and some corporate skulduggery, I doubt I will ever be able to retire. But while I know I am working towards the grave (aren't we all?) I will spend all the time I can with family and still support my organization but within limits that I have usually able to set.
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And we were paid for overtime, although it was straight time. I had a five year stretch in the 80's where I was generally working 57 hours a week. From reading various posts, we're working 50+ hours a week for free. In my office, young engineers don't want to work overtime even though they would be paid for it ( most of our work is T&M).
I work more than I have to because I like to come in early. I can get things done when I'm not being interrupted. But I usually stay late because on my projects I don't have a deputy PM or a real project engineer who can look after things if I'm not there. Today, people have become very particular about what they like to and what they will do, AND, they get away with it.
30 years ago, if I said no the the chief engineer or my squad leader I probably would have been thrown out of a window (not literally). Work was work.
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What I find is that it is not the company that burns people out, but your immediate supervisor/manager. At every company, public/private, large/small, this/that, there are good and bad people. You have to make do the best you can of a bad situation and look to move on. You have to enjoy and savour the good situations, before you move on.
Remember how you feel now. In a few years/decades, you will be the one affecting other people's working lives. Treat them the same way you want to be treated well.
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