First Trip Across the Pond - Any Advice?
First Trip Across the Pond - Any Advice?
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Hello Everybody,
Sorry if this is a re-post, I did a search but what I found was mainly about how to find jobs overseas. The job part I already have worked out, it’s the actual moving overseas that I am trying to figure out now. I will be leaving in about 6 weeks to work in my companies Aberdeen office for about a year (I’m currently in the Houston office), and I just wanted to see if anybody had in tips, tricks, hints, must-dos, must-haves (more in terms of clothing than anything else), favorite restaurants, etc. It will be my first trip overseas and more than anything I just don’t want to look like a complete idiot when I get there. Any advice is very much appreciated.
Cheers,
Kat
Sorry if this is a re-post, I did a search but what I found was mainly about how to find jobs overseas. The job part I already have worked out, it’s the actual moving overseas that I am trying to figure out now. I will be leaving in about 6 weeks to work in my companies Aberdeen office for about a year (I’m currently in the Houston office), and I just wanted to see if anybody had in tips, tricks, hints, must-dos, must-haves (more in terms of clothing than anything else), favorite restaurants, etc. It will be my first trip overseas and more than anything I just don’t want to look like a complete idiot when I get there. Any advice is very much appreciated.
Cheers,
Kat





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Sorry kat6787, I've never been to Scotland so can offer have no further help.
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In the US when they talk about across the pond they usually mean europe (or the UK).
kat6787,
The hardest thing in the UK is setting up a bank account. You need to be at your address for a certain amount of time, but you need an account so that you can put your pay in it and afford to live at that same address. See if your current bank has an affiliate in the uk that they can get you an account set up at. Alternatively you may be able to set up an offshore account at the isle of man (which has some tax benefits)
Taxes in the UK are not only higher but are quite complicated. In the first couple of pays you will probably be on whats called emergency tax, it means that you will pay higher tax than normal (but it will be reimbursed at the end of the year).
I assume that you will be working with the offshore oil industry. There are a couple of good websites on this industry if you just google it.
People will dress up a little more at work than they do in the US so take that in mind. Not usually a suit, but not quite casual either.
The pub is the centre of UK social life, people will usually go out for lunch and a pint on friday lunch times (and often after work as well) so the best option to meet people is to get involved in these outings.
Scotland is a gorgeous place, and my favorite region of the UK. In winter you can go skiing in Aviemore, and in summer you can go walking through the highlands. Do a ghost tour in edinburgh along the golden mile and tour the castle. And you should definately try haggis.
You will have a good year.
csd
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It's like Americans winning the Tour de France....the French can't take it so they fabricate doping charges. I would like to see a Frenchman win the Tour this year and I bet NO dopping questions will ever be brought to light.
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Sorry for the confusion, I guess I could have been more specific with my post. Lets try it one more time:
I am currently in Houston, TX, USA and will be going to the companies Aberdeen, Scotland, UK office to work.
csd,
Thanks for the advice. I'll definitely put you suggestions on my list of things to do. And thanks for the heads up on the bank account.
Cheers,
Kat
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Don't eat to many scotch eggs. Some city in Scotlane is the heart attack capitol of the world.
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Warm outer clothing - must also be waterproof.
Thick woolly socks and a waterproof pair of sturdy boots.
A crash course on getting your liver used to removing large amounts of alcohol from your bloodstream..
A flashlight to find your way around before 10.00 hrs and after 15.00hrs during the winter.
A phrase book would be handy e.g. asking for a "Scotch" will get you a pint of low-hopped dark beer.
csd72: No skiing last season in Scotland - climate change!
You must not have met the "black midges" during your walking - lucky!
In conclusion - Kat, you will have a great time. The Scots are a very welcoming nation.
Cheers
Harry (2 miles South of Hadrians wall - built to keep the Scots out of England!!)
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Just about everything is more expensive in the UK; especially if you factor in the current exchange rate, bring over what you can. Prepare for a heart attack when you fill up the car with petrol for the first time. You will need to register with a doctor, dentist etc. Walking and public transport are considered normal in the UK.
Flights are incredibly cheap, check out Easyjet and Ryan air when you get over most of Europe is within a 3 hour flight, visit as many countries as possible, even if only for a long weekend.
Take in as much as you can and have a great time, not many people get a chance like this, enjoy it to the full.
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Get a few Euros at the airport to get you to the city - but exchange real amounts of money at an international bank in town.
Food is kind of dull compared to US - but you will recognize it and like it.... unlike some other countries.
Beer is good and plentiful... ice cubes are NOT.... IF you order a Scotch and want ice cubes and water ... they will think you are from a different planet...
Fish is good and plentiful.
Since they drive on the wrong side of the road - MAKE sure you look RIGHT before crossing the road... actually make sure you look both ways... they drive fast.
Watch your head. Many door ways are hundreds of years old and might be only 5'-8'' or so tall.
Have fun...
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Make sure you get over to the west side of Scotland, especially from Oban northwards toward the Kyle of Lochalsh. It has a beauty all of its own. Check out some of the photography by Colin Prior: http://ww
The Scottish winter can be ferocious. The summers can be glorious. Scots midges, especially those in the north west, are the most aggressive on the planet and are not merely immune to all chemical insect repellants, they actively enjoy insect repellant!
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Scotland's a great place, have fun.
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I have friends who swear by the Culture Shock book series.
You can get a used one for Scotland for $2 at Amazon. Can't go wrong with that price.
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On the other hand the wine and beer is cheap!
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The other slightly stange thing is that Scottish banks are allowed to print their own curreny notes. So unlike the USA that has all bank notes the same size and colour, the UK has english and various scottish notes of different types. Confusing at first for overseas visitors.
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If you’re heading across in 6 weeks you’ll get here for our summer, so warm clothing and waterproofs required....
OK, seriously, it gets fairly warm (for us) in summer, although probably around the same as spring for you. There can still be plenty of showers so a light jacket needed.
It can get pretty cold and wet in winter (and autumn and spring come to think of it) so warm waterproof clothing required.
For a flat (sorry apartment) expect to pay £600-£700/month, but you can of course go for more or less. Have a look at: www.aspc.co.uk , they list pretty much every flat or house for sale or rent around Aberdeen.
There are already a HUGE number of workers from overseas in Aberdeen so banks should be pretty used to it. Easiest thing is to get in touch with HR in Aberdeen that you will be dealing with. They should sort that out, or at least give you references on headed paper to make the process easier (i.e. allows you to avoid the proof of address etc). O&G companies are pretty good at shunting people around the world.
Restaurant wise try Nargile (Turkish), Goulash (Hungarian) or Rustico and Ciao Napoli (Italian). You’ll have to go to the Ashvale as well for some (award winning) fish and chips.
To comment on what some other have said:
Yup, not much daylight in winter (pretty depressing) but it makes up for it just now with only a couple of hours of darkness a night.
Not sure about the Scotch beer? To be honest we don’t use the word scotch at all, we’d call that a malt whisky (as opposed to a blended whiskeys) and you’d generally ask for the brand.
If you do want to try a few malts go to the Grill (a bar) on Union St. It might look, erm, intimidating to you but trust me they are very friendly and its not uncommon to find it full of tourists with the bar staff enthusiastically talking them through the various malts (they have a huge selection). Full of colourful characters.
Might be the way I’ve read it but ice cubes are plentiful, I’m sure we could provide all the ices cubes you could ever want. The correct way to drink a malt is with a little water to allow the more subtle flavour flavours to come through, but ordering with ice won’t raise too many eyebrows.
Saying all that, you’ll see many more bottles of Bud and Miller on the go rather than whiskey, stereotyping!
Currency is GBP, Euros won’t get you far. English and Scottish (and Northern Irish, although not common here) pounds look a bit different but are all legal.
Trust me, you can get plenty further north than Aberdeen (from up north!) and it’s worth a look if you have the time, Inverness is a nice city, and the West coast of Scotland is lovely as ScottyUK said.
There is a pretty lively social life here too, I’m sure you’ll get to know Belmont St. A few nights out will help you get to know the city, and make sure your colleagues tell you the truth about things!
Don’t worry too much about looking like an idiot, things aren’t that different. As I’ve said there are a huge number of overseas workers so the general population is used to a few strange accents. The trick will be getting used to theirs.
Sorry for the long post, but anything specific feel free to ask. I know how you feel; coincidently I’m off from our Aberdeen office to our Perth (Aus) office for a couple of years in about 6 weeks too.
Good Luck!
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I work in Aberdeen (Dyce) for an offshore contractor doing primarily structural work associated with subsea systems. I’ll cover a few aspects which could be of interest but if you have any specific questions just shout.
Aberdeen is quite a small city with a population of around 220,000. It is big enough to have everything you would need but small enough that you can be in the country in 30 minutes and in the Grampian mountains in a round an hour. There is plenty of stuff about to do.
The city itself is built mainly of granite, which means its grey. Add to that the grey skies and dull days some people say it is depressing. I like it though. It can be cold in winter but it seems the days of snow lying for weeks are gone. We didn’t get any snow last year, or if we did it was gone in a couple of days.
Accommodation: There is a shortage of property for both rent and purchase in the city. Most of the flats are old Victorian tenements. I think rental for a one bedroom is around the £400 -450 per calendar month. Two bedrooms are around the £600-700 mark. You would want to be looking in Ferryhill, West End, Rosemount, Dyce areas. Areas of the city to avoid would be Tillydrone, Torry, Seaton, Northfield. There are others in between neither particularly nice or nasty.
There are also a number of ‘satellite’ towns and villages around Aberdeen where a lot of people stay and commute to work. These would be Westhill, Kingswells, Newmachar, Balmedie, Portlethen.
Transport: Most people in Aberdeen drive which leads to pretty bad congestion in the morning. It typically takes me about 45mins to drive 6 miles. There is a bus service but I am not a fan of it. It is quite expensive and when you need it (going to and from work) its usually very busy. If you work in Dyce you can get the train from the city centre.
Social: The popular pubs, bars, shops and cafes are all within walking distance of Union Street (the main drag in Aberdeen) and there are ample of each. Belmont street is a popular street for pubs as that is about all that is on it. Drinks are on the pricey side £2.50 ish for a pint of lager.
It can prove tricky to get a bank account and national insurance number but it can be done. Your company should be able to help. I can also ask a colleague who recently came over from Eire and has just gone though the same exercise.
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Some practical advice. Do not go into a pub and sit straight down. Pubs are almost universally self-service, so you'll need to go to the bar. Expect also to pay for each drink as it comes rather than running a tab. Even if you are eating, expect to place your order at the bar. Don't feel obliged to tip the barman either.
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Enjoy the pub life. The food is better than you'd expect and I still miss a real ale, as I can't find any here in Eastern Iowa.
Pay attention to what people are saying, you'll eventually get most of what they say. While the Yorkshire accent I had to deal with wasn't nearly as bad as the Scottish you'll get, after about 6 weeks, you'll understand most of what they say.
If you're keeping a bank back here and your credit cards, call them ahead of time to see if there are overseas transaction fees. I kept my home base here in the colonies, so it was important to know. Of the two cards I have, one had a fee and the other didn't.
ATM's generally have the best exchange rate and are very plentiful. I generally didn't worry about getting my GBP's until landing on the Isle.
Don't expect to go to a restaraunt before 7 PM. A group of us walked into one in York at 6 PM, one table was seated and we were refused as they were booked for the night.
The last advice I'll offer is to travel on all your days off. Even if only to Edinburgh or Glasgow. Get out and about and find things on your own. Watch out for the brown HT signs. That sort of thing really interested me personally, so I tried to find all the historical items I could.
Oh, to have the fish in Whitby again. . . .
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My US credit card (yep, I finally managed to get one!) worked just fine over here with no hidden charges. A much easier way of moving money around than asking banks to send it. Can't say I tried ATMs here with my US card though...
Whilst pubs are generally open all day, the restaurant comment is so true. A load of us Brits tried the traditional beer/curry/fight thing in Chicago once. Unfortunately the curry house closed before the pub, so we lost out. In the UK, pubs spill out into curry houses - the best way in my book.
Travel. One of my US colleagues spent a weekend here recently exploring by car. On motorways! My advice is to choose a destination, leave the car and walk. UK (and for that matter, European) towns were born before cars, so you get the best enjoyment on foot.
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If you go from Aberdeen to the bigger cities (York, London, Edinburgh, etc), certainly the train is the best (from what I experienced.
When I had a free day and didn't want to take a train, I'd travel the North Yorkshire area by A and B route. I was looking for the out of the way places, though, so it suited my tastes. I wasn't paying for gas or car rental either, so the sticker shock didn't phase me!
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For most nice or even middling restaurants you'll probably want to phone in advance to see if you need a reservation. Also tipping is typically a bit more conservative/less widespread.
US Biscuits do not exist in the UK.
UK Biscuits are what the colonials call cookies.
US Chips = UK Crisps (Lays = Walkers by the way)
English Muffins are available but it’s not like they’re everywhere as the name may suggest.
Even if the food is nominally the same it may be different. For instance most UK versions of breakfast cereals are not as sweet as the US versions. Even UK bread typically isn’t as sweet as US bread, it’s closer to what’s called French Bread here in CA.
“Food is kind of dull compared to US” maybe 20 years ago but not really any more. Sure there are bad places in the UK but there are bad places in the US too. If you want strong spices etc you’ll want to look at ethnic food rather than traditional British, Indian being the obvious choice. (By the way, I’ve never found an Indian restaurant in the US that was anywhere near as good as those in the UK) However, while typically milder the British food is very good, don’t turn your nose up at Steak & Kidney pudding, black pudding, Haggis etc until you’ve tried it. My wife (US born & bred) is a convert to several British foods I’ve introduced her to including real Kippers (not the canned kind) and crumpets.
The American & European style beers are usually called lager in the UK and real men will frown upon you drinking them
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My only experience of Aberdeen is the airport - not bad for a one-horse town kind of size. Better than Inverness airport anyway. I expect you'll become extremely familiar with the place during your year!
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One more call for advice though. It seems like you can do most things by using the train, bus or walking to get around. The company has offered to lease a car (but that doesn't include a gas card) or offered a per diem to pay for public transportation. The apartment is within walking distance to the office so I'm not worried about how to get to work. I have no problems walking to get around on my time off when I can, but would it be better to get the car for when I want to explore the country? How easy is it to rent a car for the weekend once I get over there?
Again, thanks for all the advice so far.
Cheers,
Kat
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Unless it's improved massively in the last 4 years the public transport is a bit hit or miss in the UK.
For some things it's great for some awful. If you plan on visiting historic sites outside of city/town centers a car may be almost essential.
In London the tube/underground is pretty good for getting around.
The trouble with buses is it's not always easy to work out where you need to get off and the drivers are not always too helpful. So not necessarily a good option for touristing. Can be relatively expensive too.
Renting a car isn't too difficult but probably not quite as easy as US, more expensive too although it's been a while since I rented either place. I'm not sure what the situation will be with your licence, I'm not sure if it's like the US where if you're there more than a certain amount of time you have to get a local licence.
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If you are there for a year buy a 5 year old ex company car for fun, and walk to the office.
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Most cities you have to pay to park and beware of wheel clampers, not sure if you have them in Houston but basically if you park illegally or do not feed the meter they clamp your car and release it for a large amount of money, I do seem to remember that the law is different in Scotland to England however.
As for car hire most of the same companies operate in the UK as the USA, have a look on the web at Avis, Hertz etc. Train and bus tickets are much cheaper if pre-booked or you buy say a week or month long pass.
I would follow Greg’s advice and buy an old car when you get over and sell before you leave, probably the least expensive option.
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If you want to see the country side you really do need to get a car. There are buses out to the towns and villages, but really nothing to any of the scenic areas. They are painfully slow as well. It takes two hours to get to Ballater on the Bus and you can drive it in 45min-1 hour. The link below is to all the bus timetables
http://timetables.showbus.co.uk/nscot.htm
As the others have said hiring a car shouldn’t be too difficult (don’t forget your driving license). You can also pick up a cheap run around for a few hundred quid at the car auction.
http://www.smag.co.uk/index.asp
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The train is pretty good for getting between the cities, but the buses vary and anything outside the city centre isn't great.
I read it that the company will be providing the car, you just pay for petrol (not gas here!) That's pretty good, petrol may be expensive but if you choose not to drive you're not paying anything.
Plus, site seeing is one thing, but when it gets dark in winter at 3.30 in the afternoon and you're standing at the bus stop in the sleet and snow waiting for a bus you might regret turing down the car.
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In that part of Scotland, I would imagine public transport would be limited. Getting a car will also give you more options on where you can live.
Check out the parking situation at work though, parking can be very scarce in parts of the UK.
csd
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I'd still take the lease car option though. Little things like picking up groceries at the supermarket can become major chores if your home isn't near a decent shop. But then again, if you don't get a parking space with your flat and you have to pay for parking (a problem with some city centres but I don't know about Aberdeen), its worth giving some thought to how often you will really use it.
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It does depend where the flat is, if its right in the city centre, like mine then all the on street parking is paid. But as a resident you can get an exemption permit from the council. Its about £40 a year.
If the flat is a bit further out the on street parking might be free. However, there is a limit and finding a parking space can be a nightmare.
If you are in the suberbs areas, Dyce, Garthdee, Bridge of Don, or further afield you will have no bother getting a parkinng space.
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A large car in the UK is considered a medium car in the US, A medium car in the UK is a small car in the US, and a small car in the UK doesnt really exist in the US.
There is a good reason for this. Roads are narrow, gas is expensive, and the smaller the car the more places you can park it!
csd
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plasgears,
Not really sure what you mean. But I am going as part of a young engineers exchange program with the company. This is the trial run to see how it works, and if it goes well the program will become a regular program within the company. Is it truly necessary? No, I don't have to go, but it is a great opportunity and I'm willing to put up with some hassles for the experience I will gain.
Cheers,
Kat
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Ignore the naysayers. It will be a bit of work but it is definately worth it. I am living in my third country (and my 4th city) since I started working 10 years ago.
You cannot understand another culture until you have lived there for a year or so. You may not want to leave!
Make sure you take full advantage of your time there.
csd
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Get a car, learn to drive on the left. Go places, explore the mountains, the whisky distilleries, take a picture of Nessie, hit the pub once a week...
Just one thing, the first time you try haggis, for gods sake have it in a good restaurant, never try canned haggis
"Is this trip really necessary?" heh heh... was Columbu's trip across the pond really necessary?
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Learn to drive a manual too if you can't already. Learning both at the same time in a strange car would be tricky.
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The Scots love Americans - usually grilled with a little mustard.......
Cheers
Harry
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Once you've been there a little while and start to adapt to the slight differences in culture you should be fine.
Oh yeah. Football in America is not football anywhere else, including Scotland.
Football in the rest of the world is of course Soccer in the US.
Closest thing to American Football are games like Rugby, Aussie rules, Gaelic football etc. The most important thing to note as that being far more rugged than American footballers the participants in these sports don’t wear helmets and shoulder pads etc.
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A few specific notes:
1. In the UK they will always form a line for anything (including fish and chips).
2. Brits are not as loud as Americans so try to make sure that you are not the loudest one in the room.
3. politeness is very important.
4. If someone flashes their lights at you on the road, it usually means that they are giving way to you.
5. Use your indicators always!
csd
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On multlane highways (dual carriage ways and motorways) keep to the left unless overtaking or getting over to let someone merge or the like.
It's not like in the US where the lanes are just a free for all. Everyone keeps left except as above.
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csd72, - all your five items are pretty common to me in the US except for 2 - there ARE loud Americans. Most people here respect lines - though there will be some always who try to cheat. 4 is different - here it usually means there is a speed trap ahead so beware.
KENAT - the unwritten rule in the US is to keep right if you are slower. Not all do it but many do.
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yes to a certain extent, but all these items are exagerated in the UK.
As per item 5. I have heard that Americans that use their indicators do exist but I usually dont see many of them on the roads.
csd
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In fact passengers used to get upset with me for always moving over after I'd passed someone.
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Actually it's often a written rule. So is the rule to use your turn signals. Doesn't mean anyone pays attention to it. I see people tootling along in the left lane just below the speed limit, driving merrily past the "left lane for passing only" signs, while everyone else passes them on the right. And the governing mentality for turn signals seems to be that if you use your turn signal you are giving your strategy away to the enemy.
Regarding point #1, yes, Americans respect lines when they see them, but there are plenty of situations where they won't actually form a line but will just kind of cluster around and vaguely keep track of who was there first. A lunch or ice cream truck, logistically similar to a fish & chips stand, is a good example of this. Sometimes I see people in a line, but often they'll just form a little semicircle around the service window, and the circle will get a couple layers deep.
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except its called queue'ing.
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oh, one other thing you'll learn to live with is a complete absence of (pretended) personal interest by the checkout chicks and other service employees.
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So true, the odd exception but fairly rare. You also won't have everyone wishing you 'have a nice day'. I've come to realize a lot of people this side of the pond actually mean it but as a brit when you first hear it it normally sounds pretty fake/insincere. And I don't ever recall hearing someone say 'happy holidays' either.
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I lived in the UK for a number of years, and yes I do speak the Queens English also (albeit with an Australian Accent) but the majority of americans will not be familiar with the word queue so I thought it better to put it in terms everyone understands (this is something you learn to do when you live overseas).
It may be an exaggeration, but the brits do queue up a lot more than most western countries.
csd
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Don't mistake a Scotsman for and Englishman.
They hate that. The Scots are not big fans of the English, mostly stemming from hundreds of years of war. You would think that things were not like that anymore but there is still a deep hatred in some people. And Scotland is it's own county and most Scots see it that way.
Read my post under "Keeping my mouth shut" and you will see what not to do.
This will vary all over the county but this would be a general rule of thumb to keep in mind, especially in a bar.
Everyone else seems to have filled you in on everything else.
Enjoy Aberdeen and the rest of Scotland it is a beautiful place.
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Welsh are Welsh.
Irish are Irish, unless they're unionists in which case they may prefer British.
English are British.
Is it clear now?
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And the Prince of Wales is actally an Englishman!
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Beware of locals only pubs. There were pubs in my own town I wouldn't have gone to because they had a reputation for being a bit rough and a locals only kind of place (local as in that neighborhood). If you go into one of these you're asking for trouble, kind of like biker bars etc over hear in the US.
I think when you hear stories of US citizens getting in trouble in bars etc, a lot of its because they went to this kind of place which has many unwritten rules.
In small town/countryside shouldn't be much of an issue but in larger towns and cities be careful.
That said don't avoid pubs, they're pretty much an esential part of the British experience.
KENAT, probably the least qualified checker you'll ever meet...
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Kat,
You still thinking of coming??????????
Cheers
Harry
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Ciao.
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No worries, I'm still making the trip.
All,
Thanks for the great advice. It's good to know both the good and the bad before being thrown into the mix.
Cheers,
Kat