any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
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Any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
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RE: any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
Make sure that every time they get involved that they end up with more work and headaches as a result. After two years of that they'll have a nervous breakdown.
It does rather help if you anticipate their next idiotic request, and then randomly respond either before they mention it, or else leave it until it is overdue.
Selective amnesia is also a good tactic.
Always cc his boss when requesting that he prioritise projects. Always estimate that jobs will take twice as long as is reasonable (that's not a bad idea anyway). Keep notes.
If he asks for something be done as a rush job spend an hour writing a note explaining how it'll impact on your other tasks. Even if it is only a two hour job.
Now, the above is a high risk strategy. The proper answer is that he is micromanaging because he is insecure, possibly because he doesn't trust you, or does not trust himself. In theory the right thing to do is to demonstrate that he can trust you, by anticipating his requirements, telling him what you are doing, and delivering good work on time. However that merely reinforces bad behaviour, Pavlov would not approve.
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Greg Locock
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Mike Halloran
Pembroke Pines, FL, USA
RE: any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
I don't agree with the first half of your post, and I fully agree with the second one. When I start working with a new team ( or a new element) I also start as micro manager and then adapt my style with the persons that I work with. I work with persons that like freedom and are responsible and competent enough to work with little supervision. For those, I let them loose and only control critical factors, give deadlines and objectives or provide my oppinion on how to proceed.
Others are competent but they prefer to keep me informed about most of the things and like to be more controlled. For those I am more micro manager, despite that I always try to foster independence and free thinking.
And then there are the incompetents. I usually fire those.
RE: any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
Of the many many other managers I've had, I've had a good relationship with the vast majority of them. Therefore I now treat micromanagement as a huge warning sign.
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Greg Locock
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Greg's right.
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If the micromanaging continues, its time to find another manager...
RE: any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
IMHO micromanagers are as useless as secretaries that don't care about details, and there is no easy way to live with them. Keeping details away from them is not a solution because it will make them feel very uncomfortable. Being a micromanager is usually driven by a sense of insecurity.
Knowing this, the only succesful way to deal with a micromanager is a combination of:
- Showing him that you have all the details under control and that you care about them, thereby giving him more confiance little by little so he will get less and less on top of you. Telling him details don't matter goes in the opposite direction and does NOT help.
- Explaining him that everything takes time and priorities have to be put in order of importance no matter what, and that certain things will fall off the list. This will be a painfull process for both of you, but it's inevitable to make him become a better manager (or a manager in the first place) and to make your position bearable.
If you don't have the energy to face this, get your cv up to date.
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hahaha I was just thinking the same thing
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I may be able to transfer to another dept. in my firm.
Meanwhile, I will just do the best I can.
RE: any tips for dealing with a micromanager?
MicromaNAGing.
Brian