How to quit job ethically?
How to quit job ethically?
(OP)
Let’s say you a very fresh grad and just started your first job in the industry. You workedthere a couple of monthes and then “one in a life time” opportunity comes up and you really want to follow it.
During the interviewing with the company you are working at right now you said to the hiring managers that their company is the very best and your would absolutely love to work for them. It was true at that time, actually very recent time …
Now when you want to leave you feel guilty. I know you are not! It is your life and it is your choice...
Anyways you want to leave your current job ASAP. Your dilemma: how to disengage ethically and nicely?
During the interviewing with the company you are working at right now you said to the hiring managers that their company is the very best and your would absolutely love to work for them. It was true at that time, actually very recent time …
Now when you want to leave you feel guilty. I know you are not! It is your life and it is your choice...
Anyways you want to leave your current job ASAP. Your dilemma: how to disengage ethically and nicely?





RE: How to quit job ethically?
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They'd have no problem in letting you go, if you services were no longer required, so don't mull on it too much.
Look after number one.
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Like a divorce, promises were made and are no longer valid. Likewise, like a divorce, it is highly desirable to make it an amicable one.
> Be upfront
> Have offer in hand
> Do not engage in counteroffers; it makes you look like a moneygrubber
> Provide at least two weeks notice
> Provide clean and detailed notes, documentation, etc for any projects left incomplete
> Be realistic about your expectations. Companies are in business to make money and therefore tend to behave similarly. People, on the other hand, have a variety of motivations and therefore have a wider variety of behaviors.
TTFN
RE: How to quit job ethically?
A note of caution - Check out if the company you are trying to join now (the one in a life time opportunity) is really that good - If you are convince, go for it.
Good luck
HVAC68
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Regards,
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Although there is a great deal of truth in this saying, I don't see anything wrong in loving your organisation if you have spent a substantial portion of your life with it. And, if you have performed well, your company should like you, too.
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People do, and your coworkers and bosses may love you, but a company is inanimate and only an entity for legal purposes.
Most of the attributes of a company's environment are due to the people who work there and how much they put into the company. With a single stroke of the pen, a new manager comes in and you'll suddenly find yourself in a concentration camp.
TTFN
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Once you got started, it just wasn't what you had hoped for.
NO PROBLEM! Be honest. Give yoyr current company 2-weeks notice. BE HONEST if/when they ask you why you are leaving.
Do this and you will not be burning any bridges.
RE: How to quit job ethically?
As long as you leave your on-going projects in good shape, there is no need for guilt.
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If I am going because I cannot find it with my boss and kicked him in the a.. My justification would be "my personal intuition tells me that I do not fit in this environment"
If you tell: "I am going to live with aunt Mary in Timbuktu" and they do not know (yet) that you wiped out the safe, or have that ultra-secret prototype hidden in your garage, has nothing to do with honesty or burning bridges.
The white lie won't help in this case
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Before you jump all over my case,my definition of "white lie" is a case where the recipicient is not victimized. If I rob the company safe, then tell the boss I have to leave to live with Aunt Mary, that is not a white lie.
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His example was a good one. There would also be nothing wrong, IMO, with saying to HR and/or the bosses-boss, that "Joe and I just didn't seeem to see eye-to-eye". In fact, as a manager myself, I would like to get this type of feedback from departing employees. I would not ACT on this, but I would "tuck it away in memory" as one of many datapoints, as it could be the problem is with my current first-line supervisor, "Joe".
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If I leave (any decade now), I may talk about what the other opportunity offers that my job doesn't. I probably won't get into why it was that I went looking for the other opportunity to begin with, even though that's much more relevant in reality.
Hg
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I had applied for a position at a major university, had interviewed three times; twice on the telephone and once in person, and hadn’t heard anything for six months. One of my clients had just been purchased by a larger corporation. I was to be retained as the contract engineer when out of the blue; I was asked if I wished to come to work for the corporation. It seemed to be a nice place to work. I had already become friends with some of the middle management through my dealings with the firm, and, the University had yet to send me any information, rejection or otherwise. I discussed the change with my wife and we decided to take the offer.
Three months later, I received a job offer from the University. This was still the job of my dreams, so I went to my boss, whom I still consider a friend, and said that I was considering the position at the University.
The boss went to his boss and came back with an offer of a promotion to Corporate Director of Engineering and a substantial raise along with a move to a higher class cubical. After some discussion with my wife, we decided to accept the offer and decline the position at the University.
Two years later the company was bought lock-stock and barrel by a larger corporation and I was worried about my job security. This corporation had a director of engineering who was a two year wonder. The Wunderkind looked at me like I was his worst nightmare and would take his job. Then I got to meat the CEO.
The conversation went something like this:
“Hello, Mr. CEO, I’m Sol Gunslinger, the Lancaster Director of Engineering”.
The CEO shuffled through some papers. “DAMN”, the CEO exclaimed, “they pay you a lot of money”!
That after noon, I noticed that one of the engineers at the University had died while at a work site. I immediately sent a card of condolence to the department head. Two weeks later, I was fired by FAX. I immediately faxed back that a facsimile wasn’t a legal document and that someone would need to terminate me by registered letter or in person.
I began to take some accrued vacation time. When the corporate lawyers finally got around to telling someone to fire me, I had gone past my anniversary date with the company, become vested in the 401K retirement so I got to keep all of the employer’s contributions, gained 4-more weeks of vacation, which they had to pay me and had enough years in the company to get a better severance package….Oh yeah, I flew to the University, talked to the man who would become my boss in two weeks and secured the engineering position I wanted in the first place.
I remain,
The Old Soldering Gunslinger
RE: How to quit job ethically?
RE: How to quit job ethically?
My advice to anyone applying for a university or state job is to check back with them, and if you have another offer pending, let them know.
Around here both the state and the U (which is state) take so long to make their decisions that by the time they do so, the applicants they chose have often assumed that they didn't get the job, and moved on to other positions. Sometimes it's because things really do have to go through many channels, but sometimes it's because it's just sitting on someone's desk and it doesn't occur to them that other people are still moving along at the speed of life.
Several months after I'd interviewed with my current employer (for a job that was still open because the last person they'd offered it to had already moved along; some people/agencies never do learn), I happened to run into some engineers from the office I'd interviewed with, and mentioned to them that I was assuming I hadn't gotten the job and was looking elsewhere. "Golly, no!" said they. I had an offer the next day.
Hg
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Cheers
Greg Locock
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